Don't nag at your husband after he cheats; make love to him - Counsellor to wives

How does it feel to be cheated on by your man? No matter how much love you have for him, there's no denying that, if he ends up cheating, the relationship (if it even still exists) will inevitably undergo some changes.

Counsellor, Dr Mrs Charlotte Oduro has chided women who grow wild on their men after they find them cheating to rather pamper and make love to them.

According to the controversial marriage counsellor, it is not an endorsement for men to cheat but the antidote to be used by wives to stop their husbands from making it a habit is to "make love to him".

“Let me tell you this, if your husband cheats some people find it difficult to understand why I say when he cheats and come home make love to him. The bible says the moment you marry, you have no authority over your body again…the man has no authority over his body, the woman has no authority over her body. You are together as one”, she revealed.

She said most women are not able to stand cheating partners and react in a manner which connotes anger but advice that it should not be the case.

“Some of us when he comes because of the pain we can’t stand it. We want to react and bring the pain out that cannot help the marriage. That will rather bring trouble into the marriage. Yes, he has cheated but when he comes how you welcome him says a lot. How you bring him back to where he is supposed to seat, put him on the seat, take care of him, let him relax, let him be at the place where he is comfortable, put him at a place where he feels like a king then you can relate and talk to him”, she advised.

She added “know how you talk to him, know how you relate to him. Stop fighting when he comes, stop nagging when he comes. When he comes, welcome him to his palace because his home is his palace. Let him feel welcomed to his palace”