As a man sometimes you find yourself lucky enough to land a girl who is way out of your league.

And its an amazing feeling! You did it. You beat the competition. She’s the girl who makes the world go into slow motion whenever she enters a room. She’s the one who makes angels sing and pluck their harps as she moves. Her every step, her every move, seems perfectly cultivated by the gods of Olympus.

She’s the one who has every guy worshiping the ground she walks on.  but then after a few weeks with her, you realize that the real work wasn’t even in chasing her. The real work is in keeping her happy.

So how do you keep her happy and make sure she doesn’t go away.

1. Make sure you are dating her for the right reasons.

You shouldn’t be dating her if you’re just looking to use her for your social status. It will backfire. Make sure you love her and want the best for her. This way, you will be able to treat her right naturally just like you would with any other women, without forcing.

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2. Never show your jealousy.

By dating a woman who is way away from your lane, you might get feelings of insecurity and zealousness even when she is dealing with male friends.  It’s okay to feel jealous once in awhile but don’t keep showing it to her.She will feel you don’t trust her and the fact that she can get any man she wants in an instant can make her leave you. She chose happy.


3. Be a gentleman.

It’s being a gentleman that will make you sink into her heart. And I am not talking about being a gentleman to her and her alone. You have to be a true gentleman to everyone.  Showing her that you’re a nice guy who respects people will instantly give you points.

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4.  Always be there for her.

I am not saying you should lurk in the shadows, because that would be creepy. By being around, I mean you should be within her periphery whenever it matters. When she needs someone to talk to, you should be there. When she needs to hang out with you,you should be there. Don’t leave her isolated. There are guys who are working so hard to get her.

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5. Don’t worship her.

A woman who knows she’s hot or super successful also knows that she can be intimidating. This helps her by keeping the intimidated guys at bay. Don’t be one of them! Stand your gran whenever necessary. Call out her mistakes if you need to. Don’t just give her a free pass because you are afraid of losing her.

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6. Find out her weakness and take advantage of it.

Women have weaknesses for all sorts of things, from sweets to cute, cuddly creatures to being told sweet words. Find out what she’s really into and provide it to her in good supply.You will have her hooked.

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7. Show her your strengths.

We are all gifted with different strengths.Make sure yours is o display. If you don’t show your strengths she will eventually ask herself the question “What is he bringing to the table?”

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8. Focus on her mind if she is beautiful and her looks if she’s smart.

If the lady is smart or successful, focus on her looks. Keep telling her how beautiful she is (even if she is not).She already knows she is smart. Her insecurities probably lie on her looks. And if she’s beautiful, focus on praising her intelligence. She’s been told she’s hot many times already. What she isn’t sure of is whether she’s smart.let her know she is.




9. Don’t be boring.

Always do exciting things with her. No woman wants a boring man. Surprises work well too. Always make sure you keep inventing fun things to do.Don’t be lazy since you have her.She will see it and it will bring conflict.

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