​Sex guide for the ones doing it for first time – Sex guide for first timers

1/9​Sex guide for the ones doing it for first time

There is no one rule for all. First time sex is different for everyone. It can be painful, pleasurable or a combination of both. And to be honest, there is no right or wrong way to have sex – you learn as you explore. But there are some things you should know before doing it for the first time – because first time will just come once and you would want to remember it for all the right reasons.

2/9BLEEDING AND PAIN

A woman may or may not bleed during first time sex – those who have more tissues in the hymen have higher chances of bleeding accompanied by pain than those who have less tissues down there. If your first time pains, there are chances that it will get better the next time or the next. But if the pain and bleeding persists, you may want to visit a gynecologist to get your hymen tested.

3/9​WARM UP IS IMPORTANT

Sadly, warm up (read: foreplay) is underrated. A lot of times couples aim to get straight to intercourse, without realizing the importance of foreplay. The way our bodies work, foreplay leads to arousal, which in turn allows the body to get ready for penetration. Researches indicate that it also makes the orgasm easier to achieve.

4/9​TEMPORARY ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION

It is quite possible for some men to not get a bony erection the first time round and trust us, it is absolutely normal. If you are a bundle of nerves engaging in first time sex, the mental pressure can make arousal difficult but this in no way means you are bad in bed. Some men also tend to cum too quickly or the penetration may pain more than they’d like – remember this is all normal. Just take a deep breath and relax. Remember, the biggest sex organ is your mind. Learn to control it.

5/9​VAGINAL IRRITATION

First time sex may leave a lot of women with some sort of vaginal irritation. Honestly, it is normal. Remember, it is very important to maintain hygiene before and after sex. If the discomfort persists for more than a few days, consult a doctor.

Source: indiatimes.com

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